Our lifestyle is made up of choices.  From the food we eat to the words we use, they all have a rippling affect in our lives and those around us.  The next challenge is to be intentional with the words  you choose - spoken, written and thought.  Take the following into consideration: 
- Be Positive
 
- Choose To vs. Have To/Can't
 
- Want To vs. Have To
 
- Can vs. Can't
 
- Choice vs. Should
 
- Want vs. Don't Want
 
For example, I am allergic to dairy and gluten.  You will rarely hear me say, "I can't have that."  I would more likely say, "I choose not to eat that."  Another example, I explained to Crystal (my dear friend) a challenge I was having at work.  She observed the language I was using and found me consistently using "don't want."  Bringing this to my attention, she encouraged me to identify and put my energy (thought and action) to what I DO want. 
I challenge you to use your words - spoken, written and in thought - with intention for your greatest good and that of others.